I’m someone who’s very into fashion. I love putting together clothes and jewelry in ways that make interesting outfits. I never leave the house without an outfit that I think will make me look cool.
Many of my friends are also into fashion, and I think that many teenagers are also very into fashion.
It’s something that my parents don’t quite understand. My mom often questions why I always need to go out of the house in some sort of outfit, why I only own one pair of sweatpants and why I always have jewelry on. She tells me that I don’t need to wear this stuff for other people, but what she doesn’t understand is that I know that. I don’t wear my outfits for anyone else, and I don’t look the way I do for anyone else. I wear it for myself.
I tell her that fashion helps me express how I feel inside, but truthfully it’s more than that. I’m very into the alternative fashion scene, which can make some people wary. It’s very dark, with a lot of black/dark clothing and big eyeliner and spikes and chains.
Most people assume that people who wear alternative clothing are depressed and unhappy all the time, which I think my parents are concerned about. But for me, wearing my dark clothes and my big sharp spikes makes me much more happy and confident than I would ever be wearing something colorful and more ‘normal’.
I love my unique sense of style. It does express how I feel inside, but it expresses less of my unhappy emotions, and more of my creative feelings. I don’t think of wearing alternative clothes as showing the world how sad I am, but as showing off my creativity when it comes to fashion.
It also creates a sense of community between me and other people who dress like me. Whenever I see someone else in public dressed alternative, there’s an unspoken sense of familiarity. When I meet someone with a similar style as mine, there’s a good chance we’re alike in other ways too.
Fashion is important for people who’ve felt alone in the past. When I was younger, I didn’t have many friends. I was lonely a lot, but when I started dressing the way I do, it drew people to me, and it gave me confidence.
My style isn’t for anyone else, and it’s not trying to make people think I’m cool. I know I’m cool, and people can have whatever opinion they want of me. My style isn’t showing off how sad I am, it’s showing off my creativity. My fashion makes me feel happy, confident, and strong. This is how fashion should be for everyone.
This is so true, I dress “emo” to express my feelings inside but also cuz it’s just straight up cool. And if we dressed up for other people, most of us wouldn’t be emo. It’s not for everyone and people sometimes don’t like it. But we do it cuz we like it and it makes us happy. I think another thing that people struggle with is accepting that we’re all humans even if we dress differently than most. There is no “normal”. We’re all weird and that’s awesome
I don’t care – you’re gorgeous and you should know that fact
I love all of u my peoples . I’m a dj. Darkwave
Salud
I use to be the sane way!! Let your freak flag fly little ones!! ALWAYS BE YOURSELF IN A WORLD FULL OF IT!!
Stunning Dear! Absolutely stunning. Keep being you. Even if you change. Keep being you.